Season 2 Episode 11 | Showing Up, Shutting Up, and Self-Education: White Fragility Edition

Serving It Hot Podcast with Lisa Kuzman | Leadership Coach, Self-Care Expert & Business Mentor | Serving It Hot Podcast

In Episode 11:

Listen: I'm sure you already know that us white people have a lot of work to do right now. It's not enough to not be racist — we have to do the work to be anti racist, and to actively dismantle racism. Does talking about this make me uncomfortable as f*ck? YES.

But I'm not going to let that stop me. This is me, showing up imperfectly — but honestly — to share the work I've been doing to to educate myself on how to dismantle racism.

So hey, my fellow white leaders and coaches? We're going there. White fragility, discomfort, resistance, and what the f*ck to do next.

You can tune in here:

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Watch the video version of the show (with closed captioning) here and read the transcript here

Here is a list of resources and terms for you to use to better educate yourself on this issue:

Dr. Nicole R. Robinson with Cultural Connections by Design - my Diversity, Equity and Inclusion consultant who focuses on diversity education NOT training using her proprietary gamification system to teach important concepts. 

  • I highly recommend you attend her Race, Power and Responsibility Masterclass which I found both informative and fun!

  • https://ccbydesign.org

Louiza Doran aka According to Weeze 

Trudi Lebron

That’s Not How That Works Podcast - Hosted by Louiza and Trudi

Rachel Cargle 

Desiree Lynn Adaway with The Adaway Group

Erika Hines with Every Level Leadership 

Rachel Rogers (who points people who want to pay her for her emotional labor to her teachers Erika Hines and Desiree Adaway)

Book Recommendations

  • White Fragility by Robin DiAngelo

  • So, You Want to Talk About Race by Ijeoma Oluo

  • Me & White Supremacy by Layla F Saad

  • Understanding Jim Crow by David Pilgrim

  • The New Jim Crow - Michelle Alexander 

 

Terms/Concepts

These are a few of the things that I've needed to learn -and continue to try and understand - I keep adding to this list as this is an ongoing process for me.

  • Institutionalized Racism

  • Spiritual Bypassing

  • Gaslighting

  • Bias

  • Inclusion

  • Intersectionality

  • Diversity

  • Culture

  • Oppression

  • Centering

  • White Fragility

  • Intention VS Impact

  • Free Emotional Labor

  • Blindspots

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Lisa

P.S. Check out my website, it's awesome! https://www.lisakuzman.com